When we were kids - lot of things were mandatory for our everyday life. We did not like those. Now those who are matured use to like those regulations.
Only because of the enforcement, small kid does not like so many good things to follow.

Human by nature wants to go on the way of life spontaneously with realization. For choosing the life partner that little kid (of course grown up now) has personal choice. He can get out from parents' house if there is any hindrance.
For any reason, grown up person does not like the influence over him.

Ladies and gentlemen, in Bangladesh all the time we can see government wants to enforce to show respect for the supreme leader of that party. Can you see picture of Washington, Abraham Lincoln or Rossevelt all over the USA. You can see anybody can carry the national flag on his/her car in USA? But they have respect for their leaders from the deep inside of their minds. Can you see Ghandi or Nehru all over the india or Zinnah all over the Pakistan?

Do not make anything mandatory to do the neglegency. People has the realisation and judgment to show respect to the right person. Again, do not try to impose something to show respect. It is a business of human realization. Make the proper history for every resp[ectable in our country without thinking he is my father - deserve the highest priority or he is my husband - deserve the highest priority.